9th wedding anniversary

i didn’t get doug anything for our anniversary. nothing new, really. we normally just make sure we celebrate. my parents babysit on a weekend we can make just ours and we either stay in and cook, go out for dinner or, on a rare occassion, go for a mini-vacation. these past couple of years have just been day trips with nice hikes or visits with the wineries.

anyway – i’m also not big on cards. but this year, i really felt a need to give my husband a heartful letter. we’re not together today but he’s always carried in my heart wherever i go:

dear doug,

happy 9th wedding anniversary!

it’s crazy to know that it’s already been 9 years with just another year to go for our 10th.

i didn’t get you anything – not even a card. so all i can do for the moment is be very honest with you with my feelings…

i’m so happy to know that i’ve found some one like you in my life. you make me laugh and you know cool things that i would never know and in fact, didn’t know before meeting you. like when our city had that gang-issue earlier this summer, and they went on about gun control. and how you taught me that was pretty much bs because of what our gun laws are already like (i.e. you explained exactly what it was involved to legally own a gun and how tougher did they expect it to get?) or your plethora of advanced first aid knowledge. and even though it sometimes bugs me to watch a tv drama show (like rescue me or chicago fire which we watched together last night) when you say things like, “that’s so not real” or “yeah, that would never happen” i still like watching those kinds of shows with you because in the end, i learn a lot. and it gives me pleasure to see you so wrapped up in something that is the passion of your life.

i’m so sorry that i’m not able to give you a life where it is free of the darkness that comes with my mental suffering. i wish it just wasn’t so. it is definitely not fair to you and i really do hope whatever it is that i have does not get worse.

i still envision the two of us, as an old couple (hopefully not fighting as much as my parents) going for walks and holding hands – no matter how old we are.

love, shy.

yoga me

it’s been a really hard couple of weeks for me. i’m actually taking a couple of sick days (well, at least today – i will play tomorrow by ear) due to a panic attack.

doug really wanted me to take the day off. too bad he had to work – it is our wedding anniversary today. but that’s ok – even if this week didn’t pan out as badly as it did, we would have had to postpone our anniversary celebration until next month.

i’m tired. physically, but even more so, emotionally. still, i’ve managed to do some mild yoga. i find the breathing really helps to calm me down. so i decided to post about some of my favourite yoga positions – they are the easier ones but they calm me the most.

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8th wedding anniversary with a little art and then some wine…

doug and i celebrated our 8th wedding anniversary this past saturday by heading down to niagara on the lake. it was a rainy and windy day but we made the best of it – at least all the activities were indoors.

rain on windshield

rainy day

we first stopped in st. catherine’s rodman hall’s art gallery since millie chen‘s art exhibit, ‘exquisite,’ is on display there – she’s a family friend of mine. i guess you could say we grew up together. millie has moved around a bit mainly due to her outstanding talent (my favourite of hers is the chinoiserie room at the gladstone hotel – one of the many artists designed rooms). we used to visit both her and her husband’s, warren quigley’s, exhibits more often and i now hope to go whenever possible.

the rules were that we were not to take photos of any artist’s work so i just took one of the entrance to her exhibit as well as the building’s architeture and grounds.

art exhibit by millie chen

exquisite

rodman hall art centre building

outside of art gallery

back of building

backyard of building

we spent the rest of the day visiting five wineries – mostly the smaller ones since they produce smaller batches that are not enough to sell at tthe liquor store. it’s a great way to support some of the local business which give the area such character.

colanery winery - niagar on the lake

colaneri winery - new and very, very big

vineyard

rows and rows of grapes

ravine winery - niagara on the lake

ravine winery

riverview cells winter

riverview cells winter

lailey wineries

lailey wineries

we finished the day off having a steak dinner with stuffed clams.

hobbes had a bit of my left over and scraps – his first taste of steak. you’d think he died and gone to heaven by the way he devoured it!

random thoughts in the midst of 118 farenheit

it’s mid-week. chaeli’s with her grandparents and doug had class. so i decided to take hobbes to a dog park at the beach.

it was perfect. a light breeze helped to relieve us from the rising humidex (peaking today at 118F/48C).

hobbes had a good time too as he ran circles and chased other dogs.

i think i might go back tonight – or at least, to another dog park. and i think i want to suggest to doug that we should go for sushi or something that doesn’t require cooking in the house.

with this record-breaking heat, it would be nice to just have something cool and light.

or we can go for vietnamese – not for warm food but for some of their cold noodle variety.

if we had more money, i would go back to that raw restaurant. but it’s too expensive and we’re already going out tomorrow night for our 10 years anniversary.

day 2 – hockley valley

and so this is hockley valley:

hockley valley

hockley valley

hockley valley

hockley valley

and this is hobbes on the way to our hike:

hobbes

where are we going?

we’re now just chilling out before making our wedding anniversary dinner – steaks, potatos, brussell sprouts with thick bacon cubes and of course, red wine. afterwards, it’s popcorn and dvds.

here’s the rest of the photos  from today:

hockley valley 2010 photo set

day 2 – done and done!

just finished p90x plus – upper body plus. which means… i’m done the final active week of another round of p90x! next week will be my recovery week end therefore, the end of another 90 days.

yesterday, doug ended up coming home an hour earlier then i had thought. we round up hobbes and took him to this unleashed, fenced-in dog park just east of our city.

wow – it’s a busy park. but what fun! at least for us it was, hobbes spent a majority of his time hiding between our legs.

i think he was over-whelmed. it seems that most of the dogs and owners here are regulars and hobbes, being a fresh, new scent, attracted a lot of attention as dogs of various sizes and breeds came crowding around him to sniff him out.

he finally did find a few that were more his energy level and not as aggressive and decided to follow them around instead.

okay – it’s 8am and i need to get our hiking stuff ready.

rouge valley – changing of colours

last weekend, we went back to the rouge valley. i think it’s becoming our ‘go-to place’ whenever we want a quick-fix hike. it’s just 10 minutes away and the types of trails are both beautiful and different from one another.

the trailthe trail – the whole distance to and back was about 1.5 hrs.

the valleyjust a touch of autumn colours started to appear.

interesting leaning tree overhanging the valley.

next weekend is our canadian thanksgiving weekend. chaeli is staying over at my parents’ place for a sleep over so doug and i can celebrate our 7th wedding anniversary with a streneous hike along hockley valley (part of the bruce trail). i’ll pack a picnic so we can munch and enjoy the view on top.

i’m hoping the weather will be good enough for us to go. it’s not something i want to do in the rain because some of the rocky climbs can be slippery and dangerous in wet weather. it’s also a perfect opportunity for us to go alone without chaeli. not because i don’t want her there but it’s too advanced for a young kid. hopefully, when she’s older, though, she’ll join us.

i haven’t done the hockley valley trail in over ten years but i remember it being quite a tough hike. it was porbably on my top three tough hikes ever (first being up a mountain in thailand through a rain forest; 2nd is a tie with hockley valley – the trails from point lobos state park of northern california… but i don’t know if it was that hard or if it was because i was hiking while recovering from a respiratory bug).

anyway – with all the working out i’ve been doing, i’m really curious as to see how i’ll fair with hockley.

ten years anniversary celebration of good friends (via .:shy:.)

i’m just digging up this post from my vox archive because it represents a great milestone in my life…

i’ve never had a tenth year anniversary before. doug and i are going to celebrate, this july, our seventh year together since we first started dating, and our fifth wedding anniversary comes this fall. but ten signifies a decade. ten is an era. ten is something to be proud of. so it was on june 14th, 2008, where ada and hoa invited us over to celebrate the fact that our group have been together for ten years now. leading up to the date, i was ver … Read More

via .:shy:.

eight years ago…

it was on this day exactly eight years ago that doug and i went from casual friends to a romantic couple.

i could tell you that it was romantic. that him and i couldn't stop staring at each other from aross a crowded room. that perhaps we separated from the group and took a nice walk by the river, talking and learning more about one another. i could even tell you how we flirted like two highschool kids with mad crushes for one another.

but if i said any of that, i would be completely lying.

fore… eight years ago, it all started with one simple gesture from doug.

he felt me up on bus ride home from a montreal dragon boat race.

yup. that's my man.

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5th wedding anniversary

doug and i finally got a chance to celebrate our fifth wedding anniversary – though two weeks after the actual date. not really a big concern for us since we rarely get to celebrate on the weekend of (since it falls on thanksgiving weekend).

we ended up cancelling our trip to kleinburg because after coming back from the long drive to and from t-bay, and eating traditional, n. american/western food, we craved culture. and we wanted to stay in toronto – we missed our city.

it's always like that – anytime we go to t-bay for an extended stay, we are reminded of how spoiled we are to live in a multi-cultural city, as opposed to a small-town, northern ontario city.

and so, with chaeli staying at my parents' place, we took advantage of just re-visiting some favourite places in toronto, as well as a couple of new places.

on friday night, we went to one of my favourite restaurants, the butler's pantry. this place is set up more like a cafe-style restaurant but has the most interesting collection of menu items. the sandwhiches are all british influences but the appetizer and main entree menu is a variation of korean, moroccan, greek, burmese, east indian… just to name some.

doug had a chicken curried dish over egg noodles and i had the biryani. we both shared a spinach nut casserole and side salad for the appetizer. and 1/2 litre of red wine – which got me feeling a good buzz as we walked the streets after dinner before going home.

the next day, we woke up and slowly made our way to the gym. after an hour workout, we went to a near-by japanese restaurant called ni-ji. this place is small but the decor is very modern and fun. it's somewhat out of place in the neibourhood which is probably what gives it it's charm. when it first opened, we were one of two tables in the restaurant. yesterday, we got one of the two LAST tables available. and so, we indulged in a lot of salmon sashimi and various types of sushi rolls. plus, their green tea couldn't be beat.

later in the evening, we headed down to queen street east which is, thanks to ada and hoa, my new favourite place to find good eats. the restaurants around that area remind me of some of the san francisco restaurants we visited. a lot of unique menus from great chefs. and while some of the places look very nice, it's casual, casual, casual all the way. there's also a collection of organic foods and/or usages of local farmer produce… the latter being something that's becoming more and more important in our choices of grocery shopping, so knowing that the restaurant cares about our local agriculture industry makes it that much more enjoyable for us to dine in their establishment.

we went to ada and hoa's place first and took a 15 walk through what ended up being a fairly warm night for autumn in toronto.

they took us to a place called "Gio Rana's Really Really Nice Restaurant" which is fairly new. the owner use to own the popular restaurant called 'Gio' known for it's big nose at the front of the restaurant (an icon of uptown toronto). the place closed down and he's since opened two more restaurants. one called 'five doors north' and this one in the queen st. east area.

and thankfully, the nose came with it. the building use to be a bank. they actually left the outside structure exactly the same aside from the big nose sticking out over the front entrance. the inside, however, has been transformed to a very hip and urban-rough place. i say 'rough' because the place was left purposely unfinished. and while that may sound a bit weird to envision, they were able to create a really good atmosphere.

anyway, the four of us had great food last night. we shared appetizers then went on to have a first course pasta, followed by some more southern italian fare.

i had the butternut squash ravioli in sage butter, followed by the 'sexier duck' and we shared a platter of side-vegetables.

i think the word 'living large' and 'spoiled' was how i felt this weekend except that each meal came out to be a lot less then what one would imagine these places to charge.

gio rana's realy really nice restaurant was surprisingly inexpensive… i've been to restaurants around the theatre district (which i hate going to now) that isn't even close to being unique and/or having the same, great taste, but have no problems charging $30-35 a plate.

gio's charged nothing over $20, with most appetizer dishes and first course pasta dishes being around $5 and main courses usually around $12 to $17 (one or two seafood dishes were more because they were the market price, but that's about it). desserts were also no more over $5 where as the same type of dessert on the west end of downtown toronto would be double the price!

the service, though, was amazing. we had the most nicest, down-to-earth waiter who encompassed excillent customer service without constantly being in our face or 'stuffy'.

afterwards, we went back to ada and hoa's for some pie and tea, before headinb back home.

the past two nights were perfect – even better then i had planned!

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